So Many Blessings from a Christian Mother…

 

Mother. Mama. Mom.  What do you think of when you see that word? Does it evoke many good/bad memories of your own mother? Of you being a mother to your children? There’s so many thoughts that flood my mind when I think of my own dear mom. This year on Mother’s Day, I was privileged to be with her. To celebrate her life. And to bless her in return for the many things she’s done for me.

There are so many, many ways that she’s been the best Mother ever. I promise. The sacrificial love that was freely shared with her family. The hours, days and years that were invested into my life. The memories we have made together. The laughter we have shared. The tears we have shed together. The impressions she has left upon my heart. The stories and songs of Jesus that were riveted into my mind. The security of her arms around me. Her voice calling me to wake up in the mornings. The meals that were lovingly prepared. Her thorough ways of cleaning the house.  Hours spent canning fruits and vegetables to feed her growing family. Always teaching me, guiding me, and preparing me for adulthood. For life. And for my own husband, house and family one day. The prolific gardening techniques passed along (never mind I’m still learning!) 🙂 and showing me how to be diligent in work…all by her own example. You see, I’ve never known my mama to NOT be gardening, working, cooking, etc. since the day I’ve known her. Even still, to this day, she goes non-stop. Someday, I hope to be just like that. Not overworked, but simply diligent in everyday household tasks. She never ceases to amaze me. Somehow, Proverbs 31 comes to mind when I think of my mama.

Proverbs 31:15 She riseth also while it is yet night, and giveth meat to her household, and a portion to her maidens.

Yes, She has always gotten up before her family, early in the morning, started the coffee and sat down to read the Word of God before we stumbled sleepily down the stairs and into her lap. This is a very fond memory I have. Something was amiss if her and dad weren’t sitting in the living room, reading, ( and discussing) Scriptures and drinking coffee when we woke up. This has left a deep impression on my heart. And I realize how extremely blessed I am. Seeing my parents together. Studying together. There are SO many who do not have this privilege and memory.

Proverbs 31:16 She considereth a field and buyeth it: with the fruit of her hands, she planteth a vineyard.

This verse reminds me of the Raspberry patch she had, the grape arbor (loaded with the most succulent, juiciest grapes ever), the peach trees, flower beds and the beautiful garden she kept. Makes me wonder to this day, how she managed it all!?

Proverbs 31:20 She stretcheth out her hand to the poor, yea, she reacheth forth her hands to the needy.

She may not have been on the streets cooking food for the homeless, but I well remember her cooking many a delicious meal for a family passing through our area. Sometimes the meals were impromptu, but it never lacked in taste and quality. Food was cooked from scratch, clothing sewn with love and things were given away to help others in need.

I remember the time , when I was quite young, my parents gave away a car to a family who couldn’t afford much. And I remember at the time, I cried. I loved that car. But now I see, how selfish that was! Thank God for parents who teach us to give of our best to others. I remember a time they gave my pretty silver shoes to a poor family when we lived in Honduras and were leaving to come back to the States. (I had cried over that too!) lol… But somehow, I’m so thankful for those times of training now. Unselfish, sacrificial love. Giving to those in need, even when it hurts yourself.

Proverbs 31:21 She is not afraid of the snow for her household: for all her household are clothed in scarlet.

I don’t think I ever wore scarlet, but I do know she sewed dresses, blazers, and jackets for her seven daughters and herself. And I remember they were always neatly done. There was never a time I had to be concerned {if there’s going to be clean, pretty clothes to wear every day}. There was never a time I was “cold and hungered”. She sewed many a blanket and quilt for our beds. The time and efforts she put forth into all that simply astounds me. So much patience, endurance and love.

Proverbs 31:27 She looketh well to the ways of her household, and eateth not the bread of idleness.

That’s my mama. All the way. What an inspiration! I’d say she was/is excellent at managing a household of ten children, cooking, cleaning, canning, gardening, sewing, baking bread, helping with homework, doing laundry, kissing scrapes and boo-boos, yard-sailing for thrifty finds, helping with farm chores, hospitality, and so many, many more tasks and duties. She birthed ten healthy children naturally. No c-sections. Complains zero to none, and encourages many a person via phone calls.

I remember the day well, when I sat beside her in front of an open grave, with my arm around her. She was burying a 9 year old son, my brother. He was taken too soon from her. From us. And we wept together. A mother should never have to bury any of her children. But that day she did. There are times in her life she’s had to face many hardships. She knows all about rejection, death of loved ones, fears and heart-aches. But she’s brave. She is strong. And she has not lost sight of God though it all.  Has she ever made mistakes? Definitely! Has she always done everything perfectly? Certainly not. But I do know she has apologized. Many times. And I am blessed to see her be quick to forgive.

I hope to have my mama around for many more years. And continue to learn from her. I  absolutely love having her as a best friend!  Thank You mama for praying for me! I love you…

How has your mama blessed you? Does she inspire you, encourage you or bless you in any way? Maybe you were not blessed with an idyllic childhood as I was? Maybe you have bad memories of her. Or maybe you have never even met your own birth mother. Can you pray for her today no matter what the mistakes were she may have made? Can you ask God to bless her and be with her? I hope that you can. Life is short. There may never be another chance to tell her that you love her. So please, hug your mother today, tell her you love her, and thank her for giving you life. 

A Wonderful Weekend Getaway…

The last weekend in March, we got to go on a little getaway weekend! Was so fun…relaxing…peaceful and uplifting for us. We ventured over the mountains and down into Colorado Springs (4.5 hours away) for a full weekend. Had such a wonderful time exploring, talking and dreaming. 🙂 We left on a Thursday morning and stopped for breakfast and coffee along the way- arrived there around 1:00. Had a really neat Cowboy style lunch to kick off the weekend at Rudy’s Bar-B-Q place. So western and quaint. We loved it! They serve their food in these baskets…

Next we stopped at Cave of the Winds for our first little excursion…this is overlooking the Springs from the hills.

 

We had so much fun exploring this place! The cave is such a neat place to get lost in. Although I sure wouldn’t recommend it. At all. 😉

The next morning we got to sleep in, ate breakfast and headed out to see the cliff dwellings on the side of the mountain. Really neat to see how the Indian people lived and survived the seasons back in the day…and how they stayed cool in the summer and warmer in the winter.

Saturday morning, we decided to head up Pikes Peak. What a beautiful drive! Was definitely worth it. Seeing the whole range of the Rocky Mountains was just breathtaking! It took us about 3 hours round-trip. 14,000 feet is a LONG way up- and is liable to make you feel a little light-headed…

 

Then headed over to the Garden of the Gods… and proceeded with hiking, climbing, laughing and gazing in amazement at God’s handiwork.

  

 

Saturday evening, Garrett took me out to a very romantic restaurant. It is now at the top of my list of favorite places to eat! 🙂

He had even arranged ahead of time for a dozen red roses and candles to be on the table. Love him! 🙂 It is so much fun being married, sometimes I marvel at the way God has designed for us to be together. We love life and love being with each other. Words just can’t describe… when you’re married to your BEST friend. No matter what comes our way in life, we always face it together. Thank you, God for the gift of marriage. It is beautiful. And I am content.

 

Sunday afternoon, headed home to reality. Refreshed, renewed and strengthened in the Lord. What a blessing this weekend was!

Have you thanked God yet {today} for your blessings?

 

 

 

Beautifully Created…

Yes, truly Spring has FINALLY arrived on the West side of the Colorado Rockies! I couldn’t be happier. I couldn’t be more excited. There’s just something so refreshing about getting through a cold, long, dark Winter. I can sense it even in people’s facial expressions, body language and speech. It’s just difficult to keep the Joy of the Lord {inside} when Spring comes around! Somehow Spring brings a promise of what lies ahead- like a package [begging to be opened]. And then, by the time Fall rolls around, we will all be ready to wrap it up again and settle in for another Winter. Isn’t God just so amazing, in the many ways He’s created humanity?! We fill up and spill over with emotions, depending on the season. Ha!

Some of my studies and thoughts lately:

We are a blessed people indeed, put here to be an example of Jesus. Made in His image. Created in His likeness. Filled with His Spirit. Wow, do you feel challenged yet?! I sure do! How often have you thought of this lately? We are CREATED to be like Him.  While the evil conspirator [Satan] has been plotting for generations how to undo this, our Holy God continues to triumph through the ages. If you ever get the chance, read the book {Divine Design} by Michael Pearl. There is such a wealth of information hidden in those pages. Brings tears to my eyes and questions to my mind. (And also many discussions between hubby and I!)

Here’s an excerpt from the book:

All creation bears the stamp of its Creator. Both the physical and the metaphysical world demonstrate an inherent design and therefore reveal a common designer.The similarity of design suggests a purpose and confirms that nothing came about arbitrarily. The nature of God is the pattern for all that is created, material and non-material alike. The Bible represents the one God as a triune being. This is a strange concept that one is three and three are one until we see this very enigma represented in the creation, which creation, as we have said, reflects the nature of the Creator. Creation is so thoroughly stamped with God’s triune {likeness} that the apostle Paul was able to tell us that the Godhead is clearly visible through natural creation. 

(skipping a few paragraphs…) 

The likeness of God’s omnipresence is reflected in our own soul, as seen in our ability to move about within three-dimensional space.

The likeness of God’s omniscience (knows everything) is reflected in our gift of knowing and our ability to increase in knowledge.

The likeness of God’s omnipotence (all-powerful) is reflected in our inherent ability to exercise creative power within our environment. 

Wow! It’s simply amazing how God has created man with such wonderful detail. Have you ever thanked God for creating you just like His image? Have you realized yet, just by reading this, you just proved to be created in His likeness? The likeness of God’s omniscience.

Ponder that for a few minutes.

Just like when a new baby is born into a family. He/She is created in the image of the father and mother. The body, will, emotions reflect back to the parents of the child. (Not necesssarily talking about temper tantrums here but deeper than that). Traits, personalities and fears often reflect on to a child.

So, when I become a child of God, do I reflect His likeness and image in the way He’s created and intended me to be?

I think about forgiveness. Am I quick to forgive all those “wrongs” done towards me. And soak into my mental capacity that Jesus died to carry all those offenses? Did Jesus hold grudges towards His enemies? Did He not pray for them specifically? {Father, FORGIVE them, for they know not what they do} Do I pray with the head knowledge, [knowing I need to forgive someone] pleading with God to convince my heart?! Those are the intents God can bless. 

I think about Gentleness. Do I speak my words with a tender, gentle voice? How about my eyes? Do they reflect the light of Jesus as I’m speaking? (eyes can speak just as much as words most times!)

How about Peace? Do I specifically reach out my hand and extend Peace to my fellow Christians? To the world around me? Do I speak of a peace-filled life Jesus has granted us by my actions and words?

There are so many attributes of God that I desire to reflect and maintain. Flesh is sometimes very weak. But God’s grace is always there, ready to spring into action. What about the flip side?

How about selfishness? (there’s so much that enfolds into this one) 

Pride? Pride and selfishness are so much intertwined. It’s sometimes hard to differentiate between those two. Where there’s Pride, there’s selfishness. Where selfishness abides, there is Pride. And both are sin. Both are often the roots that cause many issues. Where there’s pride, problems will surface. Where there’s selfishness, problems will abound.

I see it everywhere I go. And it can be amusing to me, when you watch others and their reactions to circumstances. It’s very revealing. Try it sometime. Do people reveal what’s in their hearts by their emotions, actions, simple gestures? [frowns, smiles and tears] Most Certainly. And here again, we are created to do this. In God’s likeness. We reflect will and emotions. 

There’s so much more that could be written about this subject. This is only the surface. I stand in awe of a mighty, all-powerful God today as I read about His creation. I am blessed to be able to reason, communicate and show gestures of Love and mercy to those around me. What is God teaching you, today?! Write about it. Talk about it. Share it. He loves to hear that much more than the complainings and murmurings that happen among His people too often. Allow the JOY of the Lord to be your strength! I will wait to hear from you. Yes. YOU. Tell me what God has done for you. Praise Him in the streets. [FB and otherwise} 😉

Blessings to all of you who read this blog. Can’t wait to hear your story.

{January} Once upon a time…

This is the tale of a beautiful young Princess, which quite obviously LOVES all things Princess and who inevitably touches the lives of those around her. And I happen to be one of those people.

There once lived a fair, beautiful young maiden, in the land of America…

She happens to be my very first niece. And her name is Taylor Paige.  I shall hope to show you a glimpse of her royal highness.

This young, golden-haired child has now passed her seventh birthday and remains  the only princess in the family of Jay & Kim. Surrounded by three brothers, this is not a small title to uphold. There are certain duties to fulfill, as the only princess, and at times this finds her rather busy. You see, not only is she her mama’s right-hand maid, but also one of her mama’s best friends and/or counselor (with rather good advice at times!) Though she be only seven, ( but if you would observe her closely) she would remind you of one, well above her age. [as in sixteen years of age, to be exact] She speaks as an intelligent adult, behaves herself as a young lady and practices her piano music diligently. She dreams of speaking Spanish, pursuing violin lessons, gymnastics, and Art school. And since learning to read at the mere age of three, she has advanced into the third grade before entering her seventh birth year. Her honest, caring heart radiates with the exuberance of life. Quite an amazing, talented, young princess… I shall have to say myself.

To those who know her well, she also appears  FEARLESS.  There are times, the tiara lies forgotten on the dresser, the glass slipper is kicked off, and she shows the princes of the house (her rowdy brothers) a thing or two about princess wrestling. There is nary a time she feels hurt or offended, for she has learned the art of communicating with the princes in their own language. ( behaviors) The rough and tumble does not frighten her, and  has learned to hold her own.  Though she may first appear to be just a young, frail girl-child, her spirit and body has become strong and graceful. She has therefore, now proven the popular belief {the tale of damsels being in distress} to be quite wrong. And the opposite to be quite true, indeed.

She possesses the mind and will of a youth. She finds speaking [and much inquiry] about God, to be quite natural. She is not easily intimidated, but remains strong in spirit. With gentle training, [in her younger years] she has already become an obedient, young lady and carries a disposition of pure sweetness. One cannot help but fall in love with this delightful princess. {with the bright, shining eyes} And in true princess fashion, the color Pink graces the walls of her tiny castle bedroom.

Taylor, we  will always love you. You are a gift to our world…and the world remains unaware of what is to come, until the moment you will step out of the castle, and begin to change the world with your life.  May God’s Grace, Protection and Peace surround you as a robe, and His righteousness crown your head as you grow up to be His Princess in His mighty Kingdom. May you always radiate your true beauty from within.

She is my fantastic niece. She is loved.  And someday her prince will come..

All this talk about princesses and then to get treated like one too!

Friendships…

Friends…We all like them. {At least most of the time} We all want them. And we definitely need them. If you’re a human, you most likely long to be someone’s friend. We feel that need for acceptance. And we feel that desire at times to broaden our friendships. Therefore, we go out into the social “world”. There’s just something about talking [over coffee] with a friend. Or two. Or three. 😉 There’s reasons why people attend weddings. And funerals. And events. We humans feel that need to connect with other humans in a way that makes us feel a part of something. Think about how depressing it would be, if you’d be the only human in the world. What a vast, empty life you would live. There could be all the animals in the world surrounding you, but without means of communication, you would feel alone. Friendships depend a LOT on communication.
If you don’t have something in common with the person beside you, you most likely will not become best friends. Possibly because there wouldn’t be a lot of communication between you two, and a sharing of the same love [for the same things]. Sometimes, though, an opening conversation is all that is needed to find out that you do see life through similar eyes, and you begin to feel that common bond between (once strangers) yourselves growing. Having a common bond, such as believing in Jesus Christ, is sometimes all that is needed to begin a friendship with someone. [In no way am I meaning to minimize the work of the Holy Spirit] But it’s so amazing to me, how this alone draws people to one another!
Huge crowds (where hardly one person knows each other from the next) gather to listen to a concert, attend a funeral, sponsor a fundraiser, or watch football. There’s a common goal here. A reason. Why else do they feel the need to mingle with others and watch with the same interest? But think about it, we were created, by God, to NEED each other. To receive from each other. To strengthen each other. To give and receive needed encouragement. But, also to reprove each other.
Does it mean that if a friend of yours, comes and sits you down beside you, gently speaks to you about an area in your life, that he quit loving you and wants to hurt you? IS this God’s view of friendship that He so beautifully designed? There are many people who ask these questions, as they recognize problems with fellow friends and loved ones.
Proverbs 27:6 says “Faithful are the wounds of a friend: but the kisses of an enemy are deceitful.”
Interesting verse. And here’s what I think it’s talking about. Taken from Matthew Poole’s commentary…

[Ver. 6. Faithful are the wounds; they proceed from an upright, and truly loving, and faithful soul, and really promote the good of the person reproved. The wounds; the sharpest reproofs, which for the present, wound his spirit and reputation.

The kisses; all the fair speeches and outward professions of friendship.

Are deceitful; or, are to be deprecated; are perfidious and pernicious, and such things as one may pray to God to be delivered from them. Or, are forced, like things which are procured with great difficulty, and many entreaties.]

And there you have it!  You, as a friend, are called to be honest, upright and bring Truth into others’ lives. Provided, done only by the promptings of the Holy Spirit in your life. Otherwise, it will never bring forth the correct fruit. There is a difference between someone who continues to “kiss” or provide fair and beautiful speeches (flattery) and someone who is honest and truly cares for your future.
Which would you rather have? Going before a Holy God in the day of judgement, and realize no one TRULY cared enough for you, to help you understand your wrong doings?
Or to see several friends to the side, beaming with you, cause they see you standing before Christ with a clear heart and a pure mind? There’s a difference here folks. The world would love to mask all this as being “mean” and an unkind way of “loving”. They will try to get people to quit being a true friend to those who stumble and fall.

Many will disagree with my views. And I expect that. But let me tell you, I would rather have a true friend who honestly cares for my heart, to stand up and help me, than to sit with an arm around me and let me go to hell. Have I felt “hurt” by a friend in the past? Possibly. But more likely than not, it was only my pride crying out for pity. And I choose to remain thankful for the insight they had into my life and the wise words they have spoken to my heart. And by the grace of God, my eyes have been opened.

A true friend will:
1. Be honest with you on all matters of life.
2. Be by your side through low valleys and high mountains on the journey.
3. Laugh, cry, mourn and rejoice with you in all seasons of life.
4. Support your decisions, as made in the Lord.
5. Walk with you and LISTEN to your heart.
6. Pray for you diligently.
7. Respect you, as an individual.

What kind of friend will you be to those you love? Do you “protect” someone stooped in sin? Is there a way to love a sinner and be a friend to them without loving their sins? So many questions. I hear them everywhere I go.
…But a topic for another discussion. And I know the One who holds the answers. 😉 Goodnight you all, and be blessed.

P.S. 2014 will be a year of exploiting those of you who have blessed and encouraged me in some way, in the past or present. Watch out friends, you just may appear on my blog. 😉 I am excited to see how God has blessed me with friendships through these many years, and recount them in 2014.

Sugar-Free Chocolate Peanut Butter Delights (S)

Have you been searching for a wonderful tasting, sugar-free candy recently, like I have?! In my opinion, it has been so DIFFICULT to find anything that I can enjoy- with no after tastes. ;( Since I have been off my diabetes medication, (going on 4 months now!) and following Trim Healthy Mama (yes, I’m one of those people!);) I have been scouring for a really good recipe. After all, we have just come through the Holidays and I was getting desperate!
I have never been much of a sugar fanatic. In fact, I typically like “saltier” foods. But you know, when everyone else is eating Holiday foods, and there’s so many goodies lying around- there will be temptations to go off plan. And for some reason, I kept finding myself reaching for “just another one”.
Then one day…
I noticed a recipe someone else posted on the THM board on Facebook. I looked twice. It did look and sound rather good. But it was just another version of the Skinny Chocolate. And for some unknown reason, I CANNOT stand the taste of it. Maybe it’s the grit in the Truvia, (yes, I even grind it) or maybe it’s some odd aftertaste? Or both? It looked pretty good on the web, but I didn’t think it sounded as good as what I kept REALLY longing for. Reese’s Peanut Butter Cups. M-m-m-m, now that’s what I’m talking about! Definitely my weakness! So, I decided right then and there, to try and change my little world…I mixed and measured and taste-tested and VOILA’! Yes, it still has skinny chocolate on it, but now I can stand the taste of it. Let’s see what you think….
Don’t they just look delish?!

Sugar-Free Peanut Butter Cups (S)

And here is the recipe for these delectable treats…
Start out with the Peanut Butter Filling:
1/3 cup + 1 TBSP. Natural Peanut Butter (I used what I had on hand)
2 TBSP. PB Slim Powder (I got mine from vitacost.com)
1/2 scoop Whey Protein Powder
2 TBSP. Truvia (or more depending on you taste buds!)
Mix this together in a mixing bowl with a fork. Should become a large ball, perfect for handling with your fingers. Begin rolling little quarter size balls with your hands and place on a plate. And pop into the freezer for at least 20 min.

Meanwhile you can mix together the Skinny Chocolate Recipe found here. http://www.thelaundrymoms.com/skinny-chocolate/
Keep it in the bowl, for dipping the Peanut Butter Balls. Once, the peanut butter filling has cooled, dip into the chocolate and watch it harden in a few seconds! serving size: 9

So easy! And to think I can lose weight and enjoy something so wonderful?! I keep mine in the refrigerator to keep from getting soft.
I hope you enjoy as much as I do! As close as I can figure, each Peanut Butter ball would have around: 2 carbs and 4 g Protein. (This is not counting the chocolate)
Caution: This recipe does have Peanut Butter in it. Too much peanut butter may slow your weight loss…

2013 Gratitude and Humility

Happy New Year to all our friends near and far! We hope that your new year will be filled with blessings from above, God’s grace and His perfect love. Wow, I feel that we have come through an incredible year! I sit here, overwhelmed with God’s faithfulness and perfect love flowing through me. I have seen so many miracles this past year, that I simply smile. {and its a BIG smile!} God has been so good! I am amazed at the mighty acts of God and how He continues to pour out His Grace to his beloved children. My heart overflows with gratitude and humility. Gratitude, for ALL the blessings He has brought to us and surrounded us with. Humility, because I realize I am close to nothing next to such a powerful, perfect and Holy One. Gratitude, because I am thankful for how He continues to lead me through life when it gets rough. Humility, because I know I have done nothing to deserve that.
There have been so many HIGHS and LOWS in the Year 2013. But I would be foolish to expect anything different in the year 2014. 2013 was filled with so many JOYS and SORROWS. But, that’s life. And I enjoy living! A new year never comes with promises of only JOYS, but God does promise He’ll be with us ALL the way through, even through a storm. For this reason, I look back to 2013 with Gratitude for all He’s given me and done for me. And I look back with Humility because of the mistakes I have made.
BUT, now I also look FORWARD to seeing what God has in store for my life. It’s going to be another wonderful year, filled with blessings, joys, anticipation, hope, family times, memories, friendships and love. I can just feel it. Yes, bring it on!
In the year 2013 we:
Feb.: Flew to PA for Pastor’s week at SMBI- made many new friends and rekindled friendships! Had a cousin’s party at Shady Maple Restaurant and visited aunts and uncles! Came home and had a wonderful, relaxing weekend with the ladies at ladies’ retreat! Many memories made there…

March-April: Drove with a friend to Missouri for a week and helped my mother plant garden,house clean, and drank many a cup of coffee over a good, long chat. Precious memories!
Flew to Uganda, Africa and had the time of our lives! Stayed two weeks and visited many prisons, people, kids and villages. An experience we will never forget!

May- Revival Meetings- hosted Dale Schnupps, as he was the speaker…enjoyed getting to know them, esp. since I knew EXACTLY where they lived in PA but never really knew them before!

June- Quick trip to MO again for a cousin’s wedding. Stayed there for another week, went to two cattle auctions with my dad. Yes, even when you hit your 30’s, it’s still fun to go out with your dad! 😉 A new nephew was born and wedding plans set in motion for Jalene!
A weekend was spent with wonderful friends, Jerel & Paula, and Jay & Jerilyn at Lake Powell. Way too much fun, swimming, boating, eating, laughing!

July- Busy with work, life and church. July 4- church picnic, volleyball in the grass, great conversations and laughter…
Started putting in a backyard patio! Yes, it may actually happen around here someday! 😉 Although, everything only gets done, as there is leftover time. Sad to say, there’s just not much of that around here! ;(
Another week trip to Des Moines, Iowa for a Josh McDowell seminar. Garrett enjoyed that immensely and connecting with Josh. Even got invited to a special meeting with him in TX for an unveiling of old scrolls, recently found. {Unfortunately, due to terrible weather, all flights were cancelled over that time!} I also got to spend time with a dear friend, Renee Kennell and had coffee with her, also did some shopping there! So fun to catch up!

August- WE STAYED HOME! 😉 Had some company, did some sightseeing and worked a LOT! 😉 Gardening is something to keep up with, among many other things…Another nephew was born! My parents and sisters at home came to see us! Spent a long weekend here, which I eagerly drank in! 😉

September- Flew to MO for a week before Jalene’s wedding. Was such a busy, whirlwind of a week. Cooking, cleaning and partying! Never knew a person’s feet could hurt so much until that week. It was one, very long week. But very good to be with family! A week later, we flew to beautiful Idaho for a friend’s wedding. Connected with lots of friends throughout the trip and stayed the weekend in Washington with Garrett’s brother Al, and family. Enjoyed Sunday lunch at my cousin Tim’s place and doing some more sightseeing!

October & November- Stayed a week in Greeley, CO {close to Denver} cooking for a large group of men. Rick and Leona were there too and we made many memories, learning to cook in skillets and crock pots only for some very hungry men! 😉 Quite an experience, to say the least. But we enjoyed it immensely. Also did laundry and cleaning…
Helped out with the annual school sale again. Babysat my three nephews and a niece for a week and kept a careful eye out for Jerilyn, after her accident. We are just so grateful she is still here with us today, after a softball hit her in the head, knocked her out, fractured her skull and caused bleeding on her brain.

And… December: We stayed home for the holidays this year! Felt so good! Of course, there was the ladies’ Christmas party to help prepare for and enjoy, a Holiday bake sale to put on for the school, and a few parties to attend…other than that, we enjoyed our vacation at home this year! So grateful, once again as I review this past year: For all the laughter, {with a few tears} the joys, {among the sorrows} and the Roses I got to smell often along the way. Here are a few more blessings I’ve enjoyed along the journey…

Blessing #1 Family! We married another sister off this year. Congrats again, Jalene & Darrell! And we welcome a new brother-in-law. 😉 Oh, the memories we made over the wedding…

Blessing #2 A Godly Heritage! {My Grandpa Hochstedler}

Blessing #3 Friendships and a church family! I’m so thankful for all the many friends He gave to me. Each one, near and far, is dear to me. God has been doing so many amazing things this year through our church. I can’t thank Him enough for His goodness to us. He has provided so many, many open doors here in our little community, He provided a really nice church house, and He continues to draw us all closer together and to Him. Thank-You Jesus for these blessings.

Blessing #4 How God can take a bad happening and completely turn it into something wonderful! From this…

…to this!!!

Blessing #5 Vacations in beautiful Colorado in the summertime! Many, happy hours out on the lake, laughing, singing, talking and hurting ourselves on the wakeboard. Ha!

Blessing #6 Going through a tragedy and my sister hospitalized for a few days, made me ever so thankful she is still with us! A skull fracture, and 8 weeks later, she is finally back to normal! We all love you, Jerilyn!

Blessing #7 Dorky little friends who enjoy shopping with you! 😉

Blessing #8 Nephews and Nieces…life would be boring without them, I’m quite sure!

Blessing #9 Beautiful scenery everywhere we go in the wild west!

Blessing #10 The open road that lies ahead, unknown and not yet tread upon. Only God knows the future, and for that, I am very thankful!

Christmas…

Christmas…this word just makes me smile. Every year at this time, I joyfully break out the decorations. I play all the music, and I drink hot, yummy, soothing coffees and teas. It spells relaxation and contentment to me. It’s a time for year for giving. Extra giving, that is. Seems there are just so many, many needs in the world. And there’s so many less fortunate than I. So for Garrett and I, we have decided to never give each other Christmas gifts. And haven’t since the day we got married. Hard to believe? And why on earth, would anyone even consider this? Well…..It all began that one year….we got a flyer in the mail. And it changed our lives. Our selfish ways of thinking.
It was for Christian Aid Ministries. A ministry we’ve personally been involved in, in times past. They send out a booklet every year, packed full of ideas what to give to those suffering from lack of food, warmth etc. People they’ve been in contact with and know the problems are legit. So now, every year, we anticipate this little booklet, and eagerly wait for it in the mail. We pour over it, with our hot coffees in hand, and discuss at length where/what our money should go towards. It is such a glorious feeling, a feeling of God having showered us with undeserved benefits.
A steady, good paying job. Our every day needs always being sufficiently met. Cupboards stocked, gas tanks full, and warm, cozy beds on a cold freezing night. The list of blessings is too long and for that, I feel indebted.

But… there were [and still are!] times, we have had to cry to God to continue providing for us, and times of wondering what will happen because the economy had gotten real bad, and the {good} job was dismissed for a time. And then came a beautiful, timely miracle! It came to us in the midst of a trial. In the midst of a storm, the Lord provided for us. I will never forget some of those miracles and the angels who touched our lives. I thank God for those kind souls who reached out and gave, without knowing our dire straits. Praise God for willing, open hands of His people. Garrett and I have since prayed many times, to be that blessing to those around us. But, sadly, since we’re less than perfect, we have spurned many an opportunity already and have felt the shame. Now,our goal has become… to GIVE with an OPEN hand to those in need. The Bible talks about us giving to the poor around us. Why would God want us to do this? Is not all money His anyway? Sadly, I hear many people using this as an excuse to not give. I have even heard the complaint, “I need to be able to pay my bills, and provide for my family”. Wow, just think on that for a moment. While there is a part of that saying, that is completely true, there is also a part of that statement that disturbs me. Is there a hint of doubt of the heavenly Father not being able to provide for you even when the bank account is empty?

While there are so many aspects on giving, and I wasn’t planning to hit all those points, we do well in remembering how much God gave us this Christmas season. He gave His ONLY Son to redeem mankind. Think about it. His ONLY Son. How much pain did God have to endure to see this take place? He “gave” ALL that He had and it hurt. A lot. There was more pain and suffering in that gift, than you and I can ever imagine. How many of us are willing to give and give until we have nothing left? Or do we trust God [better] when we know we have more than enough in the savings? And when you’re enjoying that luscious ham this Christmas day, will you pause to think of the poor, hungry children, starving for a tiny morsel? Do you find your joy in giving to children, who are already spoiled, and throw temper tantrums over not getting what was actually on their wish list? {surely this never happens!?} Or do you feel the desire to stretch out your hand to a stranger in need? Or maybe you feel the prick in your conscience, when you open yet another present, holding just another potentially useless sweater, that doesn’t “fit” anyway?

Where does this passion of giving begin? And how does one fan that flame?

To me it begins with contentment. If you think about the word contentment long enough, it probably will blow your mind. I’m thankful for this word, and how it has affected my life. Now, you’re probably thinking, that I’m definitely good at rambling…;) And I admit, that word may be for another discussion. But to me, it ties in beautifully with giving.

When my heart is filled with God’s love and grace, and my mind can grasp that, that is where contentment begins. Because of what God has given me, beyond ALL that I deserve, my blessings are no longer my own, but others’ as well. It would be selfish for me, to hang onto the blessings of the Father, who has graciously extended His own Son for my sake. Who am I to hoard these blessings for my very own? And also, if I’m content with what I already have, why would I need MORE things at Christmas?

More of what? Stuff? Useless pretties to sit around my house? Another coat to hang in my already stuffed closet? The latest techno gadget to surf the internet with? What is the purpose of all this stuff? Does it really bring joy?

To most people, the illusion of happiness and contentment is always just beyond reach, out on the horizon. The chase of stuff. And more stuff. The chase of “joy” and “freedom”…and round and round they go. Chasing that tail.
Ponder this word, this Christmas season, as you gather around the tree and the beautifully decorated gifts. {Contentment} Say it out loud. Feel it. Use it.

What is a family Christmas tradition of giving that you have? Or…do you plan to begin one? I pray that God will touch your heart this Christmas season. 

It’s FINALLY Summer!

I realized today, that it’s been far too long since I have put a new post on here. What’s the point of a blog if no one posts?! Shame on me…But here we go. I have been enjoying life and delighted that it’s finally summer! Summer means so many things to me. It means…watermelon! Fresh, juicy, ripe and deliciously sweet watermelon. I think it’s an all time favorite for me. I told my husband at the end of last summer, I think I ate a total of 12 watermelon. By myself. You see, I would always have good intentions. And I really did intend to share. But I’d go grocery shopping in the morning, buy another juicy watermelon, and by afternoon, it was half gone. By the next morning it was ALL gone. And no, hubby doesn’t care for them as much as I do, so he usually leaves them for me. 😉 And with 12+ weeks of summer, there went 12 watermelon! See, maybe I am crazy. Who’s to say?!
Summer also means road trips, camping, hot dog roasts, boating and homemade ice cream. I just told Garrett yesterday that I don’t understand why there can’t be 6 months of summer. Every year, we have a difficult time getting everything fitted in with everything we would like to do. (the list must be too long, huh?!) Although I really do enjoy the different seasons that God has perfectly planned and created. But, please show me someone who hates the warm sunshine, fresh-mowed-hay smell and barefoot time?! For me? I can’t get enough…What are your plans for this summer? Any road trips/family reunions planned? Fishing with your kids? Swimming pool and water fun? Gardening? Hiking? I think if it was up to me, I would go away every weekend and spend it outdoors. Nature is so calming. It brings peace, healing and joy. Whenever I am going through a tough time, it’s so rejuvenating to spend a day outside and return with a sun-kissed glow. There’s nothing like my white sheets flapping in the warm breeze on my clothesline. And the smell is divine. No manufacturer can ever recreate the real smell of fresh laundry brought in from outside. And I refuse to have it any other way. Now, how about some fresh blueberry cheesecake and coffee? Yes, I am off to enjoy a slice…

A New Blog with Just Another Perspective…

Well, I thought about it, I prayed about it and I feel the Lord’s direction in the new beginning of yet another blog to fill your web page. I am not the most creative writer, and I don’t always have the best words to describe all my feelings properly, but I’m going to give it a whirl. 😉 You may choose to not agree with me on everything, but thats OK. It is meant to be a challenge to anyone who longs to be stretched in the things of the Lord. I do this for myself, as I need it just as much as anyone. I woke up this morning, eager to seek God’s face and see what He has in store for me today. Especially since I had another soul searching experience last night, my cup has been full and running over! I love times (like last night) when friends can just get together and talk, pray, cry and laugh. It fills me with hope, joy, and confidence (just to name a few!) in the way that, no matter what happens to me in life, I can feel that God is always there for me and He has provided friends with the same desires to encourage me to continue on this journey. Life is a journey. It is sometimes an uphill climb, on a very narrow path, and usually includes many a slippery slope. These are my random thoughts about these three parts on the path through the Christian’s walk… I like to view the uphill climb as a time when I cling to my Father and He pulls me up and over rocks, and pushes me to new heights. Heights that I didn’t think I could climb. And over boulders that intimidate me, threaten me and are potentially dangerous. But ultimately this climbing becomes a mountaintop experience for me! Oh, the view is spectacular when I reach that point with my Lord and Saviour! Then I view the narrow path also as one that not many people are on. It is not a popular path, as it is an uneven highway and our feet get wearisome. They hurt from scratches of the briars and the brambles, and the toes ache from stubbing many rocks and the roots. We struggle to not trip over hidden traps, snares, and cumbersome obstacles lying in the road. The devil lies in wait, planning schemes to trip us up. It’s his main goal to take our eyes off Jesus and the road ahead. If we glance down, for even a second, we lose sight of the True One who is guiding us. The slippery slope is along this same path. When negative experiences begin to rain down, the sky becomes dark, and the threatening, ominous clouds hover right above us…We easily forget… to simply ask God for His flashlight! (the light of His Presence) Instead, our human flesh begins to strain. It begins to worry. It begins to lament and be overcome with discouragement. Very quickly, (this why I call it a slippery slope) we slide down, down, down…We begin to cry out. “God, why have you forsaken me?” “Where are You?” “Can’t you see I’m falling?” “Can’t you see that life is so tough and I can’t figure out why you left me?!” “How did I end up here at the bottom?” How often have you heard this, and seen this scenario? God is there with us ALL the way! HE doesn’t leave our side! WE are the ones who get sidetracked and slide down the slope without Him! His Light was available all this time, but we simple forgot to ask Him to turn it on for us. God has promised, “I will never leave you nor fosake you”. Do you believe that today? Or do you believe that He leaves you stranded in the woods to figure out your own map and chop your own path? Maybe it’s just high time we hand that axe over to Him and let Him guide and be the compass. There is so much more rest and peace in following His leading, than it is to forge ahead. Picture this, if you’re forging ahead, how can you see where you’re going, if you constantly have to look backwards to find Jesus? If He is the leader of your WHOLE life, He is simply walking in front of you and/or beside you; gently guiding you into the promised land. Will you let Him be your tourguide on this journey through life? I believe He also sends us friends, like I mentioned before to help shine a light at times, when we can’t see things for ourselves. Or to remind us and bring us back onto the narrow path. We too often become little stray sheep and wander off into a lush green meadow and become content to chew away on grass not meant for us. We are to continue “pressing and striving” forward. Onward towards that goal. Right on the path, till we win the race. The commands are simple. Jesus says, “If any man will come after ME, let him deny himself, and take up the cross, and follow ME!” Matthew 16:24